Our brains are hardwired in ways unique to us. Things that might not turn on most people can make … More
Tag: Beyond the Scene with Z. Allora
Decisions w/ Z. Allora
Sometimes I giggle when I hear someone saying a sub has no choices. Geez Louise, sometimes it feels like … More
Cuckold, Polyamory, and Cheating by Z. Allora
Cuckold is a fetish for men who get masochistic pleasure in seeing or knowing their partner is having sex … More
BDSM: The Act of Kindness
When people think about BDSM they associate the lifestyle and practice with control, pain, giving something up… and all that … More
Know The Definitions of Labels You Use by Z. Allora + Giveaway
Whenever labels are used I always worry we will use them to pathologize (to treat as unhealthy or abnormal) or … More
Humiliation by Z. Allora
Humiliation can be part of BDSM play and usually falls under edgeplay. The usual Sane, Safe and Consensual rules … More
The Genderbread Person by Z. Allora ft. it’s pronounced METROsexual.com
I know for some of you this is blog post is a review, but I think it’s important to … More
Bathhouses Aren’t for Getting Clean by Z. Allora
Are bathhouses part of BDSM? Not directly but some of the same needs might be met and one just … More
BDSM Munches w/ Z. Allora and Friends
BDSM Munches are for people interested or involved in BDSM. The gatherings usually take place at places like coffee … More
Air Travel with BDSM Equipment by Z. Allora
Much of the items we use (rope, scissors, gags, bondage tape, handcuffs, etc.) can look like kidnapping equipment. Always … More
