BDSM as Orientation by Z. Allora

Is BDSM just an intense and gratifying activity you participate in or is it so part of who you are … More

Chastity Devices, Denial, and Release by Z. Allora

Orgasm denial can be a part of BDSM. In some relationships the sub and Master/Dom exchange this kind of … More

Thank you so much for joining me, Keith W. We know each from various places: PFLAG, Pride, Pokemon Go… … More

In 7 Reasons Puppy Play Is Great If You’re New to Kink By Alexander Cheves @BadAlexCheves November 23 … More

Cuckold is a fetish for men who get masochistic pleasure in seeing or knowing their partner is having sex … More

When people think about BDSM they associate the lifestyle and practice with control, pain, giving something up… and all that … More

Whenever labels are used I always worry we will use them to pathologize (to treat as unhealthy or abnormal) or … More

Humiliation can be part of BDSM play and usually falls under edgeplay. The usual Sane, Safe and Consensual rules … More

I know for some of you this is blog post is a review, but I think it’s important to … More

Hi everyone, I’m here today to talk about my new release A Cordial Agreement! I’ve wanted to write a … More