BDSM: The Act of Kindness

When people think about BDSM they associate the lifestyle and practice with control, pain, giving something up… and all that … More

Know The Definitions of Labels You Use by Z. Allora + Giveaway

Whenever labels are used I always worry we will use them to pathologize (to treat as unhealthy or abnormal) or … More

Humiliation can be part of BDSM play and usually falls under edgeplay. The usual Sane, Safe and Consensual rules … More

I know for some of you this is blog post is a review, but I think it’s important to … More

Are bathhouses part of BDSM? Not directly but some of the same needs might be met and one just … More

BDSM Munches are for people interested or involved in BDSM. The gatherings usually take place at places like coffee … More

Much of the items we use (rope, scissors, gags, bondage tape, handcuffs, etc.) can look like kidnapping equipment. Always … More

What is that? BDSM is about exchanging power with another/others. Total Power Exchange (TPE) is when there is a … More

Cue the eye roll… Stay with me, Pretty Ones. BDSM DOESN’T CURE EVERYTHING, BUT IT DOES HAVE BENEFITS THAT … More

What’s the allure of NOT coming? Ever go on a diet? All of a sudden, you are craving everything … More